So this isn’t one of my usual book blogs (although I do have a couple I need to do) but I just wanted to reach out to you to say that it is ok to not be ok.
You’d have to have been living on Mars or under a rock if you hadn’t heard the news that a woman in her prime felt she had no other option but to end her life. This should never ever be the case for any man, woman or child whether they are a celebrity or not.
I have been shocked by how much Caroline Flack’s death has affected me and can only surmise that she was around my age and it is for the Grace of God that I was lucky enough to have people around who were only looking down on me because they were helping me up. I’m sure many of us have had times where we have felt so low that the thought of carrying on has caused physical pain but we have someone or something that pulls us back from the brink.
I was flicking/scrolling through social media yesterday and stumbled across people doing Random Acts of Kindness and it made me think what could I do. I have instilled in my children to never look down on anyone but to help in any way whether it be buying a hot drink for the homeless person, letting someone go before you in a queue or even just smiling and give a compliment to someone. I saw a publishing house doing a giveaway of a bundle of signed books to 5 lucky people and I was one of those lucky people. So I thought about Pay it Forward.

I decided to start my own Pay it forward to spread kindness and happiness. I set a limit of 10 people, never believing in a million years that I would get 10. Well I had to turn my phone off as I was getting notifications even at 1am! I woke up this morning to more than 10 people so thought I’d go to 24, 2 people a month for a year. Well, I hit that target too. I will send each and everyone of those people something over the year, it can be big, small, bought, handmade basically anything. All I asked in return was that they pay it forward too by asking their friends/followers to reply yes to and for them to Pay it Forward. This sends ripples of kindness throughout the twitterverse and hopefully beyond.
Please be kind people, you never know what is happening in the other persons life and how words and actions can affect, hurt and crush someone. Please also know that should you ever be standing on the precipice, contact me! I have have big ears to listen, broad shoulders to help carry your burden and a big heart to help heal the pain you are going through.
In the worlds of the very wise Albus Dumbledore



















